Tip 2: Ways to improve relations with the child

Not always the relations of parents with children are good. In order to improve them, you should listen to some tips:

1. Listen to the children, no matter what. The world of the child often does not obey the laws of the adult environment. Therefore, mom and dad need to carefully listen to their child in any places and under different circumstances: working together, during entertainment or on the way home. It is important for children that the story of various situations in their lives be heard and understood by dear people.

2. Listen to the children to the end. Do not interrupt the child or give him premature advice before he fully expressed. Hasty conclusions of parents can only harm him and undermine the credibility of adults.

3. Do not overdo it with morals. Children will never share their impressions and feelings with those parents who, having listened to them, begin to give a boring and long lecture about “bad” and “good”, and how to deal with it all.

4. Punish and praise in moderation. Discipline must be built on an equitable basis. Parents should understand that all children are naughty and commit minor offenses. The child will no longer share with them their failures. In any situation, the child needs to calmly explain how to act in a given situation.

5. Try to understand the culture of children. Everyone was once a child, listened to incomprehensible for adults music, wore unusual clothes and talked with friends in a certain slang. Parents should not roughly “climb” into this world of a child, regardless of his opinion and preferences, otherwise he may withdraw from constant criticism in himself. After all, he and it will ever pass.

6. Enter the family tradition. Modern families define days for joint recreation or sports, which becomes a pleasant tradition, makes them stronger and more friendly.

And do not forget to always set an example for children. A child wants to be like mom and dad and notices how parents communicate with other adults, adopting their habits and behavior.



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